An easy way to keep friends and family updated on our adoption process.
tfotorny | April 03, 2008 06:43
Dear Family and Friends,
January 2, 2008
We're starting this periodic newsletter regarding our adoption
to update everyone since so many people have been asking us how the process is going. You
are a memberof our support system and we value your prayers for us as we begin this
journey.
Over the weekend we started filling out the paperwork to begin
the process. Both Scott and Traci need to have criminal background checks and child abuse
history checks done as part of the home-study process. We are sending these forms out
first because they will probably take the longest to process. These forms have put
our minds to work as both of us need to list every place we've lived, and even the people
we have lived with, since 1975. It's a good thing we started with these forms first! So a
lesson learned so far that we pass onto you as a little tip -- keep track of where you have
lived because you never know when you'll need that information. Certain jobs and even
volunteer work can require you to get the background checks and you'll need to know
that information for yourself.
The first adoption agency we were going to work through is about
a 45 minute drive away, and we were going to adopt through the SWAN (State Wide Adoption
permanency Network). God seems to have closed that door, but He is good and He
seems to have opened another door for us. We discovered there is an adoption agency
right here in our town with about a 10 minute or less drive. This agency isn't
affiliated with SWAN (which would limit us to adopting only a child from Pennsylvania), but
it is affiliated with AAN (Adopt America Network) which will allow us to adopt a child from
any state. Maybe our daughter isn't from PA.
Traci's biggest question regarding the adoption is -- out of
over 100,000 children in
the U.S. waiting to be adopted, how will we know which one
child is the one for our family? We guess that we will "just know" in our hearts. We are
seeking the Lord's guidance for every step of the way. Traci admits she is a very
impatient person, but God has graciously answered her prayer and has granted her a sense of
peace and even a calmness for the long process ahead.
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God Answers Prayer with a License Plate
A few days before Christmas, Scott decided we would ask
God to reveal an answer to us on Christmas Day by using a license plate. On Christmas Day, we
were driving to Traci's parents' house. After the boys prayed for safe travel, Scott
prayed asking God to use the license plate of the first car to pass us as soon as we got
on I-80 to be the state that our daughter will come from. We were coming up the entrance
ramp of I-80 followed by another car. We were just beginning to merge onto I-80
when the car on the ramp behind us impatiently drove out around us into the passing lane
and flew by us really fast. We could tell it was an out of state plate. A few
seconds later a car from PA went by. We tried to catch up to the out of state car but it was
driving too fast. We slowed down to normal speed and by this time, the car was almost out of
sight. Michael prayed that God would let us catch up to the out of state car so we
could read the
license plate. Within what seemed like a few seconds, we were caught
up with just the
PA car in between us. We were planning to get off at the next exit to
get gas and the out
of state car got off at that exit too. We were right behind it at the
stop sign at the end of the exit ramp. The license plate was from Kentucky. The chances of a
car from Kentucky being on that area of the highway are highly unlikely.
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We are excited at what the new year will hold for us. We know
that God has a little girl set aside somewhere in the U.S. for us -- perhaps she's in Kentucky. We can't wait to find out who she is, and to see how God will reveal who she is to
us. We would appreciate your continued prayer support through this process that we
are just beginning.
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